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No matter what you decide it is a good idea to talk to qualified people who will be able to provide you with accurate, up-to-date, non- judgemental, confidential and relevant information about all your options. Be aware that some services may be pro-life, that is they are against abortion, so the advice they provide will be influenced by these views. Also talk to other people you trust, such as your partner, a parent or a friend as their support is very important, in helping you to make a decision. |
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Continuing with the pregnancy and keeping the baby Having a child is a big responsibility and a long term commitment. It is also very rewarding. When making a decision about becoming a parent there are emotional issues to consider as well as practical ones. In particular, you'll need to think about:
Various support services can help you to consider and plan for the needs of you and your child. The information contained in this website will also help you.
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Family Planning Victoria
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If you cannot raise a child but do not want to have an abortion, adoption may be a good option. In an adoption, a child legally gets new parents. Adoption can have its own challenges because of your emotional connection with the baby. Adoption does not mean you love your baby any less. If you choose this option you may have a mixture of feelings when the baby is adopted — anger, grief, a sense of loss, or relief. These feelings may last for a long time. Counselling can help you come to terms with this decision. Of course, even if you choose adoption, taking care of yourself and your child while you are pregnant is still very important. |
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Centacare |
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Ending your pregnancy by having an abortion/termination is a further option for you to consider. Like the other options, it can be difficult and it is important that you seek advice and support in making this decision. There are a number of organisations that can offer specific advice about abortion. They will discuss all of the alternatives available and will accept and respect the choice you make. They are also available if you need to talk with someone after an abortion. Abortion is your personal decision. Is abortion legal? Is abortion safe? Where do I go? |
Get Help
Your doctor |
Once you know you are pregnant you may have a wide range of feelings.
Pregnancy can be a wonderful thing, or it may be a time of confusion and anxiety, especially if you haven’t planned the pregnancy or if you don’t want to have a baby just yet.
It is normal to have mixed feelings about pregnancy and the possibility
of being a parent.
